sign of abuse, but as I hear its not always easy to do by yourself. There are many reasons why many of us are picked on in life, bullies always go for who they think are the weakest, as I said in many cases, in their tainted opinion, they are lazy and sometimes very jealous people with, perhaps your success, or your good behaviour, might be your good looks, or what ever there cruel agenda is, bullies are as I said lazy and don't like to see anyone getting on in this challenging world in which we live.</